BULLYING IS FAR FROM HARMLESS, PUNISHMENTS MUST BE IMPOSED Parents, caregivers and school officials need to take action against students bullying other students. Parents need to insist on harsher punishments for school bullies. Student bullying of there peers needs to stop. No child should be afraid to go to school. The facts on bullying are alarming. Bullying is far from harmless. The impact on the emotional and psychological well being of our youth can be devastating. Bullying is a relentless assault on the soul. The consequences of bullying can be lethal.
It is estimated that 160,000 children miss school everyday due to the fear of being attacked or intimidated by another student ( National Education Association). According to bullying statistics, 1 out of every 10 students who drop out of school does so because of repeated bullying. 77% of students are bullied mentally, verbally and physically, more then 50% of incidents go unreported. One out of every four kids are bullied. (American Justice Department) Bullying is a contributing factor to youth violence, including homicide and suicide. One out of 20 students has seen another student with a gun at school.
Most shooting stem from children that have been bullied and that are seeking revenge from the ones that have hurt them. There are many types of bullying. Verbal bullying can consist of basic name calling, insults, sexist or homophobic jokes to remarks and teasing using sexually suggestive or offensive language. Then, there is indirect bullying that may include spreading rumors about someone to being excluded from social groups. The most obvious type of bullying would be physical. Physical bullying might be something as simple as spitting at someone to more aggressive attacks like punching or kicking.
Damaging or taking someone else’s belongings would be considered physical bullying. Last, there is cyber bullying. Most of the time, cyber bullying is not done at school or during school hours but is still directly related to school bullying. There are seven types of cyber bullying, it has gained momentum by the popularity of cell phones and social networking sites like Face Book and My Space. Cyber bullying also consists of text messages, instant messages, chat rooms, e-mail. Picture and video clips. Victims of bullies are often shy, they may have low self esteem and poor social skills. They are less likely to stand up for themselves.
Bullies consider these children easy targets. They most likely will not retaliate. These children are afraid to go to authority figures because they are afraid of retaliation from their bullies. If your child is the target of bullying, there is cause for concern, and immediate intervention by school officials must be initiated, School bullying must not be tolerated. Some of the warning signs that a child may be being bullied are not wanting to go to school, they may become withdrawn when they are at home, unexplained bruises, a sudden drop in grades and reoccurring complaints of being ill with no apparent symptoms.
Do not let your child be a victim. We must take a stand on this issue and be heard. There can be tragic results when bullying goes to far. Suicide remains to be one of the leading causes of death among youth and in most cases, the method used is hanging. I ti is now being called bullycide- a term describing the growing number of children who stop their bullying by taking their own lives (Neil Marr, Bullycide: Death At Play Time). Over 19,000 children attempt suicide in a year. That is one child every half hour.
Bullycide and suicide go hand in hand if you stop one you succeed in stopping the other. Parents and caregivers need to take action and talk to their children if they see any of the warning signs and suspect that their child’s is being bullied. Know that the children who have been physically and emotionally beaten are left alone to deal with their pain and humiliation. They can not find a remedy to stop the bullying, so finally they take their own lives. Where is the support from parents and school officials?
We need to protect our children from the pain and suffering bullies inflict on them. No child should be afraid to go to school. Parent, caregivers, teachers, school counselors and principles need to inform children that bullying will not tolerated. That their will be serious consequences for the offenders. Stricter rules must be imposed. References: Eric Digest 1997, National Center of Statistics Bureau of Justice Statistics www. scholastic. com www. makebeatsnotbeatdowns. org www. education. com www. stop-bullies. com